by cavdo » Sat Dec 24, 2005 12:47 am
“nthmainneighborâ€, what an inspiring story you have told. I hope that I can buy you a drink when I go in for a procedure at IHTI. Good luck with your Hair Loss Battle!
“reallydumbmoveâ€, I am only a year younger than you and have slightly more hair loss than you. I have not had a HT Procedure yet, but I am planning to sometime soon. I just wanted to tell you that there is a kid at my work that, when he was 2 years old, fell down the stairs into the basement. He cracked his head open. Now, 20 years later, he is walking with a scar that runs from his right temple, behind his head, to just below his left ear. In other words, it’s all over his head. When he spikes up his hair, you can notice it, and people sometimes make comments. The thing is that he doesn’t care. He gladly tells the story how he fell down into the basement.
My point here is that it is all about how you PERCEIVE yourself. I know how much it hurts to loose your hair at an early age. Most of us here know. But no matter what, life goes on. And sooner or later, we will all have to find a resolve to carry on about this little problem of ours. The sad thing is that nobody around us can really understand how painful hair loss can be. Only the ones that experience it themselves can. Hair loss, in my opinion should be viewed as a challenge, especially in young people. It should be viewed as an opportunity to improve oneself, ones character, ones strengths, one’s overall well being.
I am talking from my own experience when I tell you that, one day when you resolve not to waste your time crying about hair loss, your life will change for the better within a moment. Although a better attitude will not get you your hair back, it will surely make your journey towards your full head of hair much easier and better.
Once a wise person said: “If you knew how often people care and think about you(your hair loss in this case), you would be offended, because they are busy thinking about their own problems. They have no time to think about youâ€